tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-55267124467644152312024-03-21T17:56:03.794-06:00It Takes A Village To Raise A Child Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11515972855290486242noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5526712446764415231.post-41073870993858128822013-02-05T01:39:00.001-07:002013-02-05T01:39:43.750-07:00Can I Search Through My Children's Phone And Computer?
Al-‘Allaamah Saalih Al-Fawzaan (may Allaah preserve him)
Noble Shaykh -may Allaah grant you success- the questioner asks:
"Is it permissible for me as a parent to search through the mobile phone
and computer of my children, fearing that there may be something upon
them?"
The Shaykh responded:
"Yes, this is obligatory upon you. It is [mandatory] that you inspect
them and look through Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11515972855290486242noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5526712446764415231.post-44764529850427709932013-01-11T20:35:00.000-07:002013-01-11T20:35:25.727-07:00Know Your Mahrams
Know Your Mahram's (arabic plural: mahaarim)
and Teach Them To Your Children
Source: http://www.islamographic.com/
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11515972855290486242noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5526712446764415231.post-71027375451989929702013-01-02T20:34:00.002-07:002013-01-02T20:34:50.403-07:00Order Your Children to Pray at Seven – By the Hijri Calendar, not Gregorian!
Source: http://salaf-us-saalih.com/2010/09/09/order-your-children-to-pray-at-seven-by-the-hijri-calendar-not-gregorian/
Because if you wait until your child turns seven by the calendar of
the kuffaar (gregorian), then you are more than two months late in
ordering them to pray! This is because the Gregorian calendar is
solar, while the Hijri calendar is lunar and thus is ten Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11515972855290486242noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5526712446764415231.post-52181845084602094552013-01-02T18:48:00.005-07:002013-01-02T18:49:24.775-07:00Little Hands – Babys, Toddlers and Mothers Group
FW:
Croydon ICT is pleased to announce we will soon be
hosting “Little
Hands – Babys, Toddlers and Mothers Group” InshaAllah.
We are working
in association with sisters within our community to provide this
service, as we continue to listen to and meet the demands of our
community, Alhamdulillah.
For more Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11515972855290486242noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5526712446764415231.post-19252719157439372902012-12-16T23:08:00.001-07:002012-12-16T23:08:48.122-07:00Good Treatment to Our Parents
Surat al Isra 17:23-24 states:
Ayat 23:
وَقَضَىٰ رَبُّكَ أَلَّا تَعْبُدُوا إِلَّا إِيَّاهُ وَبِالْوَالِدَيْنِ
إِحْسَانًا ۚ إِمَّا يَبْلُغَنَّ عِندَكَ الْكِبَرَ أَحَدُهُمَا أَوْ
كِلَاهُمَا فَلَا تَقُل لَّهُمَا أُفٍّ وَلَا تَنْهَرْهُمَا وَقُل لَّهُمَا
قَوْلًا كَرِيمًا
Waqada rabbuka alla ta3budooilla iyyahu wa bilwalidayni ihsananimma yablughanna 3indaka alkibara ahaduhumaaw kilahumaAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11515972855290486242noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5526712446764415231.post-48299780287225132742012-12-16T23:06:00.002-07:002013-01-11T20:20:19.112-07:00Playing and Having Fun with the Child:
Playing and Having Fun with the Child
There
is no doubt that playing and having fun with one's child has a great
effect on his correct and proper upbringing. This is since playing is a
part of his life that he should not be deprived of.
So do not
trivialize the act of playing with children for you will be clashing
against their natures and the dispositions upon which the were Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11515972855290486242noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5526712446764415231.post-15519164759021913552012-12-15T19:32:00.002-07:002013-01-11T20:15:33.088-07:00neglecting to teach
"The one who neglects to teach his son that which will benefit him and leaves him to his own devices has wronged him severely.
Most children only become corrupt because of their parents and their
neglect of them, and their failure to teach them the obligatory duties
and Sunnahs of Islaam. They neglect them when they are young then they are not able to benefit themselves or their parents Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11515972855290486242noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5526712446764415231.post-16564553224722688852012-12-15T19:17:00.000-07:002012-12-15T19:17:38.631-07:00Rectitude of the Child
In What Lies the Rectitude of the Child, the Youth, the Middle-Aged, the Woman and the One Who Harms Others? Al-Hakeem al-Tirmidhi said: صلاح خمسة في خمسة صلاح الصبي في المكتب وصلاح الفتى في العلم وصلاح الكهل في المسجد وصلاح المرأة في البيت وصلاح المؤذي في السجن
The rectitude of five lie in five: The rectitude of a child lies in the
study-room. The rectitude of a youth lies in (seeking Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11515972855290486242noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5526712446764415231.post-18500645660513932002012-12-15T18:45:00.000-07:002012-12-15T18:45:13.343-07:00A Child Who Spoke From the Grave
Abu Hurayrah reported that the Messenger of Allaah صلى الله عليه وسلم said:
" ....There was a baby who was being breast fed by his mother when a
rider in fine garments passed by on an agile animal. His mother said: ‘O
Allaah, make my child like him.’ The baby stopped suckling and looked
at him, he said: ‘O Allaah, do not make me like him.’ He then continued
suckling…"
Abu HurayrahAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11515972855290486242noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5526712446764415231.post-7721045091123395812012-12-15T18:43:00.000-07:002012-12-15T18:43:42.924-07:00What Reward Man Gets After Death
Abu Hurayrah رضي الله عنه reported the
Messenger of Allaah صلى الله عليه و سلم as saying:
"When a man dies, his
acts come to an end, but three, recurring charity, or knowledge (by
which people) benefit, or a pious son, who prays for him (for the
deceased)."
Muslim Book 13 No. 4005
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11515972855290486242noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5526712446764415231.post-34100240039970504012012-12-15T18:01:00.001-07:002012-12-15T18:02:54.059-07:00The Day of Revelation
يَوْمَ تَرَوْنَهَا تَذْهَلُ
كُلُّ مُرْضِعَةٍ عَمَّا أَرْضَعَتْ وَتَضَعُ كُلُّ ذَاتِ حَمْلٍ حَمْلَهَا
وَتَرَى النَّاسَ سُكَارَىٰ وَمَا هُم بِسُكَارَىٰ وَلَٰكِنَّ عَذَابَ
اللَّهِ شَدِيدٌOn the Day you see it
every nursing mother will be distracted from that [child] she
was nursing, and every pregnant woman will abort her pregnancy,
and you will see the people [Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11515972855290486242noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5526712446764415231.post-40770785510640075512012-12-15T18:00:00.003-07:002012-12-15T18:00:44.715-07:00Letting Children Sit with the Adults
Narrated by Mu’aawiyah ibn Qurrah from his
father, who said: "The Prophet used to sit with a group of his
companions. One man had his little son with him; he would bring him from
behind and make him sit in front of him…" (Reported by al-Nisaa’i and
classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Ahkaam al-Janaa’iz).
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11515972855290486242noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5526712446764415231.post-89477073847329981442012-12-15T17:59:00.003-07:002012-12-15T17:59:40.070-07:00Nothing Better Than A Good Education
Narrated by Ayyub Ibn Musa: The Prophet
Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم said: "A father gives his child nothing
better than a good education. at-Tirmidhi #4977
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11515972855290486242noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5526712446764415231.post-81565758368020668562012-12-15T17:58:00.002-07:002012-12-15T17:58:22.485-07:00Calling a Child by a Kunya (Abu/Umm So & So) Gives Them a Sense of Responsibility
Calling a young boy "Abu Fulaan"
("Father of so-and-so") or a young girl "Umm Fulaan"
("Mother of so-and-so") will make the child feel more
responsible and grown up, so he will become more mature and will
feel above normal childishness. The Prophet (صلى الله عليه و سلم) used to give kunyas to children. Anas (may
Allaah beAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11515972855290486242noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5526712446764415231.post-65150260637727512462012-12-15T17:53:00.000-07:002012-12-15T17:53:06.014-07:00Teach Your Family the Religion
Malik bin Huwairth رضي الله عنه narrated:
"I
came to the Prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه و سلم with some men from my
tribe and stayed with him for twenty nights. He was kind and merciful to
us. When he realized our longing for our families, he said to us: "Go
back and stay with your families and teach them the religion. And offer
the prayer and one of you should pronounce the Adhan Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11515972855290486242noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5526712446764415231.post-42199773648189787232012-12-15T17:39:00.000-07:002012-12-15T17:39:00.648-07:00Every One of You is a Guardian
Abdullah ibn Umar رضي الله عنهreported that
he heard the Prophet صلى الله عليه و سلم saying:
"Every one of you is a
guardian, and responsible for what is in his custody. The ruler is a
guardian of his subjects and responsible for them; a husband is a
guardian of his family and is responsible for it; a lady is a guardian
of her husband’s house and is responsible for it, and a servant Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11515972855290486242noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5526712446764415231.post-60788169772630094902012-12-15T05:14:00.000-07:002012-12-16T23:09:12.540-07:00African Proverbs
It is not hard to nurse a pregnancy, but it is hard to bring up a child. ~Swahili Proverb
When a four-year child is still crawling instead of walking it is time to cry out. ~African Proverb
The motherless child will suckle the grandmother. ~Bambara Proverb
Children will hate all those who give all things to them. ~African Proverb
A single hand cannot nurse a child. ~Swahili Proverb
A Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11515972855290486242noreply@blogger.com0